I received an email today from an old friend.
The email was giving me kudos for my experience and success in the industry, and went on to ask me for advise on the opportunity he was taking a look at.
I didn’t have to think long, excited he was looking to be an entrepreneur, and knowing he has a daughter, I was excited to assist him anyway I could in being more available for her. I replied right away happy to assist.
What came next felt like a hit below the belt.
I received an auto responder email titled, “Lisa will you be one of my three?” This email said he could only bring 3 on board with him, and I was one of the 3 he selected.
Mistake #1….
To put me into an auto responder system without me choosing in, violated my agreement with him.
About an hour later, I received an email from him, titled “Thanks”. The email read…
“Apparently you are already in the database so I doubt the email went through. Like you said, you’ve probably seen them all by now.”….and he went on to say, “Thanks again and let’s talk soon.”
This had me confused. Like oh, ok, if you don’t get the email with the information, well thanks anyway……. HUH?
Mistake #2….
Asking me to do something, then not following up on what he asked me to do.
Why did I find myself frustrated at him? He was new, and I remember being new…
Then I realized why I was tweeked.
He was not seeking advise from me. He had already joined the opportunity. What he wanted was to get me to see the video/ opportunity.
I do not fault his desire and willingness to play up. I definitely respect him for being in action.
There are many opportunities and we all believe ours is the best.
HOW you treat people will make ALL the difference. and today, I got the great reminder from my old friend, so I could pass it on to you,
The Fatal Mistake of an Entrepreneur….
Not being Authentic!
I can certaintly get over mistakes a new one to the industry may make. It takes a bit more forgiveness when one is not being, nor wiling to be authentic.
Entrepreneurs, New and Experienced, at All costs, BE AUTHENTIC!












